Non-negotiables
15 of 100 points
What you won't compromise on, next to what they won't. If you share any, it counts in full; if not, by half.
We introduce you to people who fit your criteria, and tell you why. Try it here: it's four answers.
Demo with example profiles
It shows you faces
nonstop, one after another, and what makes two people fitnever shows up in a photo.
We start somewhere else: with what you want.



Is that your dog in the photo?
That's Coco! And mountains, always. You?
Break the ice
No endless catalogue to sift through. Every profile you see has already passed your filters and comes with its score.
You see your affinity score and where you fit: you want the same thing, live alike, care about the same things.
Age, distance, verified profiles only, music or how they eat. You set it once and whoever doesn't fit never shows up.
Drawing a blank? We suggest where to start, based on what you have in common.
Nine things, each weighted as it should be. The heaviest: your non-negotiables, what you're both looking for and your values.
What you won't compromise on, next to what they won't. If you share any, it counts in full; if not, by half.
The kind of relationship you're each looking for. If any overlap, it counts in full.
What you believe and how you see things: religion and politics, with room between nearby views.
Religion 60 % · Politics 40 %
Whether you want children and whether you already have them. "Not sure yet" closes no doors.
Wanting children 60 % · Children now 40 %
How you live day to day. Being one step apart ("sometimes" and "often") still counts.
Exercise 35 % · Smoking 35 % · Alcohol 30 %
Where you are and the age gap between you.
Location 60 % · Age 40 %
What you like doing: music, weekend plans and how you eat.
Music 40 % · Weekends 30 % · Food 30 %
The languages you both speak.
Where you come from: studies, work and pets.
Studies 50 % · Work 30 % · Pets 20 %
15 of 100 points
What you won't compromise on, next to what they won't. If you share any, it counts in full; if not, by half.
15 of 100 points
The kind of relationship you're each looking for. If any overlap, it counts in full.
15 of 100 points
What you believe and how you see things: religion and politics, with room between nearby views.
10 of 100 points
Whether you want children and whether you already have them. "Not sure yet" closes no doors.
10 of 100 points
How you live day to day. Being one step apart ("sometimes" and "often") still counts.
10 of 100 points
Where you are and the age gap between you.
10 of 100 points
What you like doing: music, weekend plans and how you eat.
8 of 100 points
The languages you both speak.
7 of 100 points
Where you come from: studies, work and pets.
Every photo goes through six checks before anyone sees it. Your face can be verified live, if you want. And the chat is screened message by message.
The affinity score
Why you fit, not just how much
Message without waiting for a match
All nine dimensions, no limits
Message without waiting for a match
We'll write once, when we open. That's it.
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